So, now it has been quite a while since you are observing her, following her, and perhaps stalking her on Facebook and Instagram. Most often, she shoots a smile at you, tries to strike a conversation, and ends the day by dropping a dry “Goodnight” message. She may be interested, perhaps not. Who knows! But, you must do something about it, before anybody else does.
Well, you do not know! Perhaps, you know, but it’s just the nerves playing. Anyway, it’s better to ask her out, rather than doing it never. Without caring much about the outcome, you must give your best shot, and ask her out on Valentine’s Day which is very soon on the cards.
Be it your colleague, college friend, or the girl next door, you must do it in style. Of course, not like Bollywood, though a little bit of Bollywood is “JUST” fine.
- Be the Shakespeare of your own kind
No cheesy line, or mushy poems, please! Just be yourself, and write what you feel about her. A good way to start the body is when you had your eyes on her for the first time. There upon, you can continue writing about how special she is. Keep it natural; keep it real. You need not be a writer or anything of that sort. Having said that, make sure you use grammatically correct English, unless you want it to backfire at you. Like, you’re and your!
- Order/send food
There is no girl who does not like pizzas and burgers. This is the only way when you can afford to be cheesy, but only with food. Ask her out, by keep placing a note in the box. Allow your creative juices to flow in. Something like “I love you is too cheesy, but this Pizza. So, I decided to get you one.”
- What does she like?!
This requires a little bit of knowledge about her liking. There are so many things under the Sun that she may like, but you must know, what is she passionate about. Like cooking, reading, writing, dancing, or watching movies. You can get a Valentine’s Day gift for her based on her interests. It always better than ROSES and TEDDIES. IGP.com has several gifts based on personality. You can check them out!
- Take her out on a Date and…
Keep it simple. Do not get overambitious if she agrees for a dinner date. It does not mean anything. Take her to a fancy fine dine place. Order something that she likes. Strike a conversation on the subject that both of y’all have opinions on. Maintain the eye contact, and subtly make your move. You need not be LOUD about it. You never know, you may get lucky.
- A walk by the sea
Take her out to a serene beach. With the Sun in the backdrop and enthralling view of the beach, there could not be any better moment to convey your feelings. Just say it! If it is a “Yes”, you know what’s next.
And, if it is a “No”, at least you would not have any reason to get embarrassed. This Valentine’s Day, make sure whatever you do, do it in style!
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